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Ever thought a wedding could rival a reality TV show? 

In this fun episode, Christa sits down with TikTok storyteller Lex Harper to talk about her journey from ER skits to viral MIL drama stories. Lex shares how her storytelling took a wild turn thanks to jaw-dropping submissions from her followers—and why she loves turning internet chaos into hilarious content. 

The conversation also explores Lex’s own wedding experience, from setting boundaries to planning an intimate, stress-free day. Christa and Lex tackle hot topics like child-free weddings, uninviting guests, and the dos and don’ts of wedding speeches, all while reacting to listener-submitted drama that you have to hear to believe. 

Tune in for laughs, relatable moments, and plenty of wedding wisdom!

Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

  • Lex’s journey from ER horror stories to viral TikTok wedding skits
  • Standing firm on wedding decisions and embracing a small, family-focused celebration
  • Unforgettable wedding mishaps: drunk speeches, cake disasters, and more
  • The controversy surrounding child-free and destination weddings
  • How TikTok comments sparked conversations about boundaries and expectations
  • Hilarious listener confessions, including outrageous mother-in-law behavior
  • Why staying true to your vision makes weddings more memorable

About Lex

Lex Harper is a rising social media personality and content creator, best known for her viral TikTok skits that hilariously tackle relatable life scenarios, wedding dramas, and family dynamics. 

With a background in digital media production and experience working with brands, Lex brings a unique perspective to creating engaging online content. Her journey started with ER-themed videos and quickly evolved after a viral video about mother-in-law stories sparked massive interest. 

Known for her wit, creativity, and down-to-earth personality, Lex uses her platform to entertain and connect with her growing audience. Follow her on TikTok at @lilbitoflex_ for more!

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Christa Innis: Welcome back to another episode of Here Comes the Drama, the podcast that dives into chaos, hilarity, and unforgettable moments of weddings and events. I'm your host, Christa Innis from Party Planning by Christa. And today's episode is packed with more juicy stories and hot takes you don't want to miss. I am so excited because today's guest is Lex Harper, who is another social media personality that started as sharing stuff from her ER experience, sharing some crazy stories that she would see.

And then it kind of went into people sending her mother in law's Stories or other insane stories that have happened to them. And so we talk about a lot of crazy stuff when it comes to wedding planning. She was a March, 2024 bride, but also she has some crazy wedding stories herself that she saw personally.

That honestly sounds like it belongs in a movie or something. I couldn't believe she saw that with her own two eyes. Then we go into some confessions from listeners and so much more. So without further ado, let's jump into this episode with Lex Harper. Enjoy.

Christa Innis: Hi, Lex. Thank you so much for joining me today. I'm so excited to have you on the podcast, this brand new podcast that I decided to, venture into. you yourself are a bit of a internet personality. You do some awesome skits. And so just to get started, can you just tell us a little bit about you, how you kind of got started and, yeah, what you kind of enjoy doing on social media?

Yeah,

Lex Harper: Yeah, of course. So, like you said, my name is Lex. I started doing TikTok at the beginning of this year. I'd say I probably started in like February or March. As you can see too with my wedding pictures, I got married this year. and I kind of have a background in social media. One of the degrees I have from school is digital media production.

So I've worked with businesses before about just having their brand and content be online and everything like that. But I never did anything from my personal social media platforms. And I kind of got thrown into it this year. It was really funny because I was actually working in the ER at the beginning of the year.

So, if people have been following me from the beginning, they know that my videos and skits originally started with, like, the ER horror stories. And kind of reenacting of what came in. But it was more so, like, if someone had an embarrassing situation, they'd be like, I don't want to go get help for that because This is embarrassing.

It's never happened to anybody else before. And I would kind of show like, if you come in with this, this is what we would do to treat it and kind of go along the lines of that. So then people started sending me their horror stories about being in the ER and doctor's offices and everything like that.

And then I had one message that stuck out to me and it was this woman. And she said, Hey, I have a really bad mother in law story. I personally can't post it because all of the family follows me on everything. And I don't want to start any more drama, but I need to know if this is like my personal situation and I'm overreacting to it, or if this is something that's toxic for a mother in law and I made that video and it went.

Viral and I got so many other messages about it and that kind of just took off from there. 

Christa Innis: Wow. I love how like, hear this all the time too. Like you start one way of a social media of like, what kind of makes sense for you and your story. And then the algorithm tells you like what people want to see, what you want to see.

And, I love that. It kind of like turned in that direction. So it started with people Sending you their mother in law story. It didn't start with your own drama or, issues with your own wedding. Okay. 

Lex Harper: No, so I'm very thankful, like, I have an amazing mother in law. I've had some people that I've dated in the past that their mothers have been questionable, to say the least, and had some experiences with that, but the mother law that I have, she's absolutely fantastic, and when I started posting these videos to everyone thought it was my original stories at the beginning, so in addition to all of the messages being like, hey, these are my stories, I was getting so many DMs that were like, Girl, you need to leave.

That's not healthy. this is not good. And everyone was like worried for me. And I had to have a talk with her too. I'm like, you know, none of these are about you, right? And she watches all of them. She follows me on TikTok. So she laughs and like sends them to me or puts them in our family group chat.

And if we ever have anything going on, she's like, I could react like this. You guys should be lucky. And we're like, We are very thankful that you are not like that. Oh my 

Christa Innis: gosh. I love that. I had the same thing happen. I would have people comment, certain platforms. I feel like most people on Tik TOK now get these like scenarios aren't ours.

 but I have people on like Facebook, be like, why are you airing your dirty laundry out here? you should go talk to her. And I was like, Oh no, these are not about my own mother in law. I have an amazing mother in law. And she said the same thing to me where. I kind of kept my Tik Tok private for a while.

Like no one knew I was doing it to like grow at first. And then when it started growing and I shared it on other platforms, she follows me on Instagram and she was like, the first time I saw it, my heart dropped. She's like, I thought you were talking about me. And I was like, Oh my gosh, no, never. Like, that's really funny.

People just kind of, I think, assume. So with your wedding this year, you were a 2024 bride. What was the most, Surprising thing when it came to planning or did you experience any kind of like, I don't know, new lesson when it came to your wedding 

Lex Harper: planning? 

I think my biggest thing that I learned with planning was that I had to stand firm on what I wanted because myself, I'm very laid back, go with the flow, just kind of like, yeah, whatever, we can do that.

Or like, we need it, we don't need it, I'll be fine. My husband's the exact same way. He's like, we can do whatever you want. I don't have a preference. Like, he definitely wanted to, like, help. He wanted to know what was going on. So, I would be talking about, like, our flowers or something, and he'd be like, Oh, can we put these in there?

I'm like, yeah, sure. And his favorite color is actually pink. Don't know why it has been since he was little. But our wedding theme, it was instead of being 50 shades of gray, it was 50 shades of pink. So all of our guests that we had all wore different shades of pink and everything like that. and he had a gray suit and pink and purple tie and, you He had a lot of fun with it.

I think a lot of people told me because I was 24 when I got married and everyone was like that's too young. Are you sure you want to do this kind of scaring me out of it and that was like people that we Knew kind of were like family friends and not actually like involved in our relationship Because we like to keep our relationship like very Private.

 if people are like, oh, are you guys together? It's obviously like a hundred percent. That's my pen But nobody really knows like the ins and outs of our relationship because I just kind of like made it better so we had people that were telling me they're like you're too young to get married You're only 24 and i'm sitting here and i'm like you guys are gonna lose your mind when I tell you My husband's only 20 and we're getting married so we do have that little bit of an age gap, but You I noticed when we were planning, people were like, this is going to be the most stressful day of your life.

You're not going to remember anything. it's going to be so much to try to plan and we have the complete opposite experience with that. his granddad has Alzheimer's, so we wanted to keep. The wedding, very, very small. We're both very introverted too. So that was really weird branching out and doing TikTok for me.

Cause I'm like, I have a lot of people watching me right now. So this is very different. but we a very small wedding. We had less than 50 people there. It was family only. We did no wedding parties. I think we had a lot of things that were considered traditional that we didn't do that people were like, are you sure about this?

Mm 

Christa Innis: hmm. 

Lex Harper: Yeah, 

Christa Innis: I know. I think it's so interesting when people put their own like pressures and expectations on other people because it's like you don't know their relationship. You don't know their personality or what they want to showcase in their wedding. And I think it's so interesting, like, I had the same thing where people are constantly like, Oh, you're going to stress out so much.

 you need to do this and you do that. And I think I love that you like set your boundaries of like, Nope, this is what I'm doing. Like, this is what makes sense for us because it's so important to be on the same page as your partner. and, Everyone else will come in.  you don't have to change things for everybody else.

And I think that's hard for people-pleasers a lot of times 

Lex Harper: and we didn't want our wedding day to like be stressful like that. So I don't know if I've told anyone in my family this, but we, my brother was our officiant for the wedding just because we again wanted to keep it a small family wedding.

And we signed our papers and everything, but those weren't our real papers. So we actually got married a different day. We went down to the courthouse, like we're in sweatpants and that's how we got married.  that was just a lot easier for us and it made everything go kind of a lot smoother because it was kind of already done.

So we were like. Breathe and have a good day. And it was fairly simple. the place that we got married to, it was like a run business and they just opened up their wedding venue that year. So it probably like if it was in a big city, the venue itself probably would have been like 20, 30, 000. But just cause we wanted a small countryside wedding and everything like that.

I think it was like 6, 000. That's like, That's pretty good. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. Yeah. It sounds like you like knew what you guys wanted to do. And I think that's amazing. I think it's so easy to get caught up in like a million opinions around you. And I find brides are most like confident. And happy with their wedding day when they stay true to themselves, because I see it in the comments all the time.

And I'm sure you see it in your comments too. People being like, I wish I would have done that. Oh, I hate that. This person told me to do this. Oh, this person came in and somebody knew it this way. And then they have all this regret. They're like, I never wanted this. So I think it's. I 

Lex Harper: think that we had a lot of people trying to tell us what to do, too, because I'm the youngest in my family.

I have two older brothers, so I'm the only girl. He's the youngest in his family. He has two older brothers, so I'm the only girl that's getting married. We're both the babies of our family that are getting married, and we're the first ones to get married. So everyone was like, Oh, we'll plan everything for you guys.

Cause we originally said that we didn't really want to have a wedding. cause we just wanted to build a house and start life. And they're like, no, you need to celebrate. 

Christa Innis: You took a little bit and then you're like, okay, so we're going to do that. Okay. I want to jump into some of your own stories that you might've heard or your wedding hot takes.

So. First, I know you kind of said, the mother in law story that was sent to you. Do you have any, like, a wedding guest or being a part of a wedding, have a crazy story or something you've heard that, whether it's tied to weddings or not, that you were just like, your jaw dropped? 

Lex Harper: I think my first year that I moved out to Georgia, I went to a wedding because I grew up in Arizona, had never left the state.

And then in the middle of COVID, I was like, I'm going to move all the way across the country and go to school in Georgia. So I went out there, it was my first year I was working at a country club. So met a lot of the members and everything like that. So I got invited to a wedding as a plus one. And the ceremony that we were at, it was very nice, very pretty.

And then it gets to the reception, and that's kind of when I was like, oh, okay, this it was kind of rave techno theme going on, I was like, this is really cool, I've never seen anything like this before. And then they make the announcement, they're like, the open bar is officially open, so you guys can go crazy.

And I'm sitting there, and I personally don't ever drink, I've seen people had a lot of bad experiences with alcohol, and I'm like, I'll stay away from that. And I kid you not, it probably wasn't even in like two hours into this wedding because the ceremony was at five o'clock. So this is around like seven o'clock and it's supposed to go till two in the morning, I think they said, and people were already completely wasted.

So I'm like, Oh, that's not. that's not a good look and I'm taking notes of everything. I'm like, I know I don't want that Like we didn't have any alcohol at our wedding. It was dry so I was like, I don't know if that's the best look so the best man gets up to give a speech and he Very intoxicated is saying all the wrong stuff slurring his speeches Everything like that and the groom got up and he's like, hey, like i'm just going to take the mic.

We're gonna You Sit down, it's okay, and he shoves the groom back, and he falls onto the table with the cake. So the cake goes on the groom, and we're sitting there like, is this happening right now? I literally sat there, and I looked at the person I was close one with, and I was like, And he's sitting there, he has a martini, he's just sitting there, he's like, Ooh!

And I'm like, you should not be making sound effects right now, I'm like, we need to go, like, this is not okay. and it just went completely silent because the bride's still sitting there and she's just like, and he doesn't think he did anything wrong, the best man, so he kind of is like laughing, thinks it's funny, and goes like that to get frosting off of it and licks it, he's like, at least you picked a good cake flavor, can't say the same thing about your wife.

And I'm just sitting there like, he has issues with the bride It keeps 

Christa Innis: worse. 

Lex Harper: Like, yeah, so I was like, we need, to go. this is not okay. 

Christa Innis: No, that's like something you see in a movie. I cannot believe that. 

Lex Harper: So bad. They're still married, I think, cause they were gonna come to our wedding, cause they had become, like, really, really good family friends out there, and I had no family in Georgia, so, people were like, oh, we'll adopt you, you'll be in our family now.

I was like, oh, okay, cool, and, yeah, they were still married in March, so. Yeah, hopefully my gosh, 

Christa Innis: I would be livid at the best man because I mean, that's one of the things too, that you always hear is like, don't, if you're going to give a speech, don't drink too much before, keep it very like classy. If you can't handle your liquor, maybe don't give a speech.

I just say I've definitely been to a wedding where the best man drank too much, but like you could tell, they handed the microphone off to a different groomsman and he was reading the speech and he like kept pointing because the guy was just like out of it.

And that's just, yeah. 

Lex Harper: I've seen a bunch of people now, especially like the 2025 rides. They're like the rules for my wedding. I see it a lot. Like with my videos, cause these are like, these are my rules for labor, like when I have kids, especially with the holidays and stuff, because I have a friend who's due two days before Christmas and they're not married, like they're just dating.

But the boyfriend's mom is like, Oh, well, like we're going to be over there. You'll be out of the hospital on Christmas. So we'll just meet you at the house. She's like. No, I don't want that. So like, these are the rules with my newborn. Like, this is what you have to do. People have been starting to do that with their weddings.

Like I'd noticed it a lot with the 2025 rides. They're like, these are the rules for my wedding. And they've been getting so much like backlash and everything for it. And especially one of the things that kind of upset people a little bit with our wedding is that we were doing a kids free wedding. and.

that's just what we wanted to do. Because it's not like we were purposely, excluding them. Like, if there would've been enough kids for them to play with each other, it would've been fine. But, like, if it's one kid and she's four, she's not gonna wanna hang out with all the adults and everything and stuff like that.

 so people have been oh, we're having a child free wedding and people on the internet are like, that's so selfish. You can't do that. Like it's about family and the brides are like, It's my day. Yeah, but I understand it like if you were excluding one child specifically and like all these other ones could come to it, but people have been  kind of feral what they want to do for their  

Christa Innis: Yeah, that whenever I post about child free weddings or some kind of like skit about it, Those go so controversial, people like it crazy over it, and I'm so with you where I feel like it's and this is I'm so glad you brought this up because I want to talk hot takes with you.I believe again, it's like I've been to a wedding, so there's tons of kids.

I've been a wedding, so there's no kids at my own wedding. We only did our nieces and nephews, so there were seven kids invited because we were like, when I was a kid, if I was like directly like. Related to them. Sure. I would be interested if my cousins were there, but I would never go to like weddings with my parents and they were like friends.

 and so we were like, we want nieces and nephews 'cause they're in the wedding. They're a part of it. But yeah, other than that, we didn't invite like friends, kids and anyone under 18. I think it was just because it was for us, like the place we were gonna be where like buy all these like bars and stuff.

It was open bar, I don't know, but it wasn't. Yeah, exactly. It's just, it's funny. And I think it's a, cultural thing too, because I've heard of other, countries, they always invite kids, other, some places they say they never invite kids. So we just have to like, Respect what people want for their own wedding.

Like, and I said, too, I was like, now that I'm a mom of a toddler, if people invite just me and my husband, I'm like, cool date night and whether we can go or not, that's not the fault of the bride and groom, I would never be offended if she wasn't invited. I'm just like, Okay, that's okay. Not the vibe. 

Lex Harper: I've seen that biggest thing like the child free weddings, but then also the destination weddings to people have gotten very upset about those.

Yeah, 

Christa Innis: that's so funny that you brought that up because I just saw that. Oh, someone commented on one of the videos saying like, it's so, so selfish of someone to want a destination wedding because they're asking for so much money. And I was like, what? Like I've been invited to a destination wedding and I just, I couldn't make it.

I just said no. And I wasn't offended. I just don't get it. Being offended by other people's wedding choices. Oh yeah. and I think too, it's like people want to complain so much about how other people are choosing to do their day. Like, oh, that's so expensive. Or the way they're asking bridesmaids is like the wrong way.

And it's like, It's not your wedding, but if you were asked and you want to say no, just say no. Or, Yeah, people like to complain, I guess. okay. So really quick before we get into the wedding submission that I want us to blind react to. I added this fun segment called pick a side on wedding drama kind of debates.

I know we're kind of just talking about some big ones, but this first one, ever okay to uninvite someone to your wedding? Why or why not? 

Lex Harper: I'd say yes. Because if you look at, like, realistic timelines, most people won't get married for, like, nine months to a year. Sometimes, like, even longer than that.

So if there's something dramatic that happens, like, in their timeline, I think it's okay to uninvite them. The one thing I would say it's not okay to do, I've had some stories like sent in to me, or I've known people that have been like, very, they're like the beige moms that you see like all over TikTok, it's like, this is the aesthetic I have, this is what it needs to be.

And I've seen a story where they uninvited one of the bridesmaids because, like, she got pregnant and she was supposed to be the maid of honor and the bride didn't want her to be standing up there with her when she was pregnant. Eight months pregnant because it would draw attention away from her. So they've been friends since they were six years old and like a 20 year friendship.

Yeah. And she uninvited her for that. So that I would say, no, that's not okay. True color showing. Yeah. Like if it's something like if you guys, friends fall out all the time too. so if it's something to you where they're genuinely like not in your life anymore, I think that's okay. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. 

Lex Harper: Yeah. 

Christa Innis: No, I totally agree with that.

 I think too, like if it's, I've heard of where maybe someone was dating when you invited them and you're closer to the person that like, maybe they broke up and you're like, well, I'm not even close to that person anymore. Like, it'd be kind of weird if they came. I didn't have experience with this, but I'm just like, I could see that being a reason.

Like, you're like, well, it'd be kind of weird if they came now, plus they're maybe like toxic together. or if there's just like weird vibes with someone, like, you're not getting along anymore. Totally agree with that. what is your opinion on giving guests plus one? I know you had a small wedding, so what did you do about plus ones?

Lex Harper: Just because we did a family only we didn't have anybody do a plus one because our biggest thing was we didn't want to be meeting people for the first time like on our wedding day. and we kind of did a wedding weekend with it and it's funny because like husband was still in school. So, he got Thursday and Friday off, and we got married Thursday.

So then we could have Friday, Saturday, Sunday with our family and everything like that. Cause we got married in Tennessee. So we were like, we want to be able to walk around, like enjoy the city and everything like that and enjoy family time. And he went right back to school on Monday. So we didn't have anybody have plus ones for that just because of how small we kept it.

And we also were trying to keep it really small again because like his granddad has Alzheimer's and having that many people in general, but especially like new people that he doesn't know, he gets very uneasy around them. So we're like, we want to like stay clear of strangers and everything for him. I think It really depends on the relationship that they have if they get a plus one.

Like, if it's a new relationship under, six months or something like that, I don't really think they get a plus one. Like, you guys will have other times that you can do stuff together. you can start at family events and stuff, but it doesn't need I don't want to be looking through my wedding pictures and we have to, like, be cropping someone out.

The running joke in my family, like when we take group pictures, the significant others, whatever they are, they always go on the end of the pictures until you're married. So if you break up, they can just get cropped out. That's just always how it's been. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. Yeah. No, I definitely agree that. I don't think Plus one should be a guaranteed thing.

I think it definitely depends on, the type of wedding, the relationship, and maybe a cutoff too, because if you give everyone a plus one, then your wedding's going to just double. And maybe your 16 year old cousin shouldn't bring her boyfriend. She's been dating for a month, So definitely think things through like that.

Okay, before we get too late, I want to read this story submission. It's not too crazy long or anything. so as we read, or as I read it, we'll just kind of react to it and, maybe respond at the end. But, yeah, here we go. And I've not read this. I

I'm going to react with you. Okay. This story says, I met my now husband, boyfriend at the time in August 2022. And at the end of September, one of his best friends was getting married. Since we were newly dating, he asked the groom if he could come to the reception only. I didn't need a seat, a plate.

I don't drink. I would just come to dance. I showed up and met all of his friends and one of the friend's girlfriends in particular was overly friendly and made me feel welcome. I immediately saw through it because she gave me major pick me vibes. One of the guys, type of girl.

She was the only one allowed in the group chats, 

 the only one to come to, guys nights. All the get togethers had to be at her house. her wedding was two weeks after this wedding that's all she talked about with me at the wedding, how much better her wedding was going to be, how good the food and music was going to be 

How they had top shelf alcohol in an open bar instead of a cash bar. So, first and foremost, talking about your own wedding coming up at a new wedding is so tacky. I think that's so wrong. 

Lex Harper: Very much. Even like if it's, it already happened and you're like comparing it to it. That's just not okay, because like, everybody has a different background and everything.

So your tastes are automatically gonna be different, but you also don't know, like, the financial position that they're in. And then if it's better than your wedding, so for example, like, if your budget was 20, 000 and there's 40, 000, but you're looking at it now, like, you can always find something to be bitter about, because you're like, oh, well, I don't like this, it's tacky, it's cheesy, and it's like, okay.

You know? Exactly. doesn't matter. 

Christa Innis: Right. Yeah. I know. I just feel like, what a, I don't know, I just can't imagine being at someone's wedding and just like criticizing what they're doing with their completely different setup. All right, let's see what else happens here. Fast forward. I got to her wedding late because my sister's rehearsal dinner was at night.

That sounds like a very crazy, busy weekend. I arrived at the start of the reception. Her friend was so drunk. She was taken away in an ambulance. Oh my gosh, okay. Uh, apparently that's a normal occurrence for her, because no one batted an eye as she was put onto the stretcher. Oh my god. At what point is it like, okay, maybe this is not a good place.

Maybe she shouldn't be drinking at an event that happens normally. 

Lex Harper: Either, if they're letting you continue to do that, they need to have like an intervention or something and be like, Hey! Yeah, 

Christa Innis: like, I don't know if this is what we should be doing. Oh my gosh, okay. As the night went on, the bride got sloppy drunk, her friends were fighting, their DJ canceled last minute so their feeling wasn't great, and we eventually just left.

That again, that sounds like a movie scene, like. 

Lex Harper: That's karma for talking about the other girl's wedding. 

Christa Innis: Yeah, literally, like she's talking so high and mighty about her own wedding and then it's like your top shelf liquor got you a little too sloppy. Fast forward two weeks later and another couple of their friends were getting married.

Tell me why she talked about her own wedding during the entire cocktail hour and dinner.

 No. So, like, it didn't even faze her that, like, girl, You screwed up at your own wedding and now you're gonna, I think a lot of it comes from your own, maybe insecurities or like, I don't know. 

Lex Harper: I think people get so used and like lying to themselves to making themselves feel better. So they'll be like, oh, this happened, but it wasn't that bad.

You're like, we're remembering this two completely different ways. It's good for you to putting an interesting spin on it, but. Like, you remember this much when this much happened. 

Christa Innis: Exactly. Yeah, they're just picking out, picking pieces of what makes sense, or picking pieces of what they want to remember. so she says, we never really clicked.

Like I said, she gave off Pick Me vibes, and I didn't really want a friendship with her. Not to mention, she screamed at me when she found out I was pregnant before she was! is this girl? This is terrible. And told me we were supposed to be pregnant together. We weren't even close friends. What? I wouldn't even say that to my closest friend.

Maybe like in a joking way, but like definitely not someone I barely know. 

Lex Harper: That's pretty creepy. And then like the kids are born and she's like, they're gonna get married. they're not gonna be friends. Yeah. 

Christa Innis: Yeah. We're gonna hang out every day. Oh my gosh. Anyways, can't wait to see what you do with this story.

I don't want to give real names or defining clues because this one was a doozy. Oh my gosh. I cannot. That is insane. that was a good one to read because sometimes I read stories and I'm like, it can go one of two ways. This one, like constantly things happen. man, girl, I wonder if she hasn't, I might need to reach out to her and see if she has any updates of like, this girl's trying to reach out to her.

 Oh my gosh. All right. So we don't have much time left. I don't want this to kick us off, but, I want to end with, reading some weekly confessions. So I started asking my Instagram followers to share their weekly confessions. So what we're going to do is play a little drama confession game. So I'm going to read the confession and then I want you to rate it from one to 10, one being mild tea and 10 being absolute chaos.

 so I've got three here. I'm going to read to you and I've not read them yet. So let's see what we got. Okay. First one.

Mother in law gave me the bra she wore on her wedding night for the next time Hubs and I had a special night.

Lex Harper: It's just so uncomfortable. Oh, my God. I can we say like 25. Yeah, for real. And that like, does she want her to tell her husband and be like, you're in the middle of it. And they're like, this is your mom's bra. Yeah, this is your mom. And then 

Christa Innis: what tell your Hey, we wore it last night. Like, Weird. All right, confession two.

My mother in law forgot the rings on purpose on our wedding day in hopes his son would change his mind.

That'd be like a 10. I'd be so upset. Yeah. when I read this, I'm like, did they know the mother in law had ill feelings towards them? Because I'd be like, I would never be giving her the rings. 

Lex Harper: Buster with that. For our rings at our wedding, it was so funny because I, like, obviously the girls get engagement rings and everything.

We had an engagement party back in Arizona and my husband wanted to wear like a ring for it so I got him like some of those rubber silicone ones and he never took it off after the engagement party and I never thought anything of it so we're up at the altar getting married and I go to put his ring on and he still has his other ring on.

I'm like, 

Christa Innis: he's 

Lex Harper: like, what? Yeah. I love it. 

Christa Innis: It's so comfy for him. You didn't want to take it off. I love it. I wouldn't trust you with that. We held our rings whole time. Yeah. Oh, exactly. All right. And last one. And I'm hoping this doesn't cut me off. I think you should be fine. Okay. 

 Mother in law got a room right next to ours for wedding night. We changed it and she got grumpy and then teased me.

 Why do you want the room next to your son and his new wife? 

Lex Harper: Uh uh. No. No, 

Christa Innis: those were, couldn't deal with that all really. I think those were all like 11 plus at least. All right. So bad. those were awesome. Oh my gosh. Well, thank you for coming on and reacting with me. I'm so excited to share this because these were some great stories and you had some awesome ones yourself.

 where can everyone follow you on social media and see more of your amazing content? 

Lex Harper: they can follow me on TikTok. 

Christa Innis: been getting so many comments and dms and everything. They're like, you two need to be doing story times together. Like you need a collab, you need to do this. so do you care if I take a picture and put like a teaser, on my story for it be like, yeah, of 

course.

Yeah. And then If this cuts out, we can jump back on. Okay.

Lex Harper: Ready?

Christa Innis: Sweet. I like didn't know where to look all of a sudden.Awesome. Well, thank you so much. It was so nice meeting you. Nice meeting you too. All right.

Bye.

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